पूरी अग्रवाल शादी — सगाई और तिलक से सात फेरों और विदाई तक, अर्थ, मंत्र और इलाके के हिसाब से फ़र्क के साथ।
- Mandap (four-pillared canopy) with agni kund and havan samagri
- Var mala (flower garlands) and the sehra for the groom
- Bride's wedding attire, mangalsutra, and sindoor
- Tilak and haldi paste
- Coconuts, rice, and dal for the laja homa
- A small stone slab for Shilarohan
- Kalash with water, mango leaves, and a coconut
- Diya, ghee, cotton wicks, camphor
- Mehndi, flowers, and sweets
- Dakshina envelopes for the priest
- 1Tilak / Sagai — formal engagement; the bride's family applies tilak to the groom and exchanges gifts.
- 2Haldi ceremony — turmeric paste is applied to both bride and groom at their homes for purification.
- 3Mehndi and Sangeet — celebratory evenings of henna and music before the wedding day.
- 4Baraat arrives at the venue; the groom is welcomed by the bride's family at the Milni.
- 5Var Mala (Jaimala) — bride and groom exchange flower garlands, signifying acceptance.
- 6Kanyadan — the bride's father places her hand in the groom's, formally giving her in marriage.
- 7Panigrahan — the groom takes the bride's right hand, reciting the mantra of acceptance and commitment.
- 8Shilarohan — the bride steps on a small stone, symbolising her unwavering commitment.
- 9Laja Homa — the bride's brother pours puffed rice (laja) into her hands; the couple offers it together to the sacred fire.
- 10Agni Parikrama (Saat Phere) — the couple circles the sacred fire seven times. The bride leads the first three rounds; the groom leads the remaining four.
- 11Sindoor Daan and Mangalsutra — the groom applies sindoor to the bride's hair parting and ties the mangalsutra around her neck.
- 12Saptapadi — the couple takes seven steps together, each step a vow for shared life: nourishment, strength, prosperity, happiness, progeny, health, and lifelong friendship.
- 13Ashirvad — the elders bless the couple with akshat and kumkum.
- 14Vidai — the bride departs with her husband's family, throwing handfuls of rice back over her shoulder as a parting gift to her parents' home.
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मंत्र
मंत्र आमतौर पर पंडित जी बोलते हैं — जहाँ पता है, वहाँ ये सिर्फ़ देखने के लिए दिए गए हैं। पूरा मंत्र संग्रह देखें।
ॐॐ गं गणपतये नमः
Beginning the ceremony by invoking Ganesha — for an obstacle-free married life.
ॐगृभ्णामि ते सौभगत्वाय हस्तं मया पत्या जरदष्टिर्यथासः
Panigrahan mantra: I take your hand for prosperity. May you live a long life with me as your husband.
ॐसखा सप्तपदी भव
Saptapadi vow: With these seven steps we become friends — may we walk together through life.
यह विधि बड़ों से पूछकर और इलाकों के रिवाज़ों का ध्यान रखकर लिखी गई है। हर परिवार और इलाके के रिवाज़ अलग हो सकते हैं।